Who lives where?

Your parents probably won't live together anymore and together you'll need to decide where you live. If your parents can't make the decision together, the decision may be made by the court (see the Your rights section).

The decision may be based on which parent is closer to your school and who can provide a stable and comfortable home environment. In some situations, children spend equal time with both parents. Have a look at Tips section for tips on living in two households.

It's not about who loves you more

You parents might ask which parent you would prefer to live with. Remember the choice is not about which parent you love more, or which loves you. It's about who is in the best position to meet your needs.

It's okay if you don’t want to choose. Talk to your parents about the things that are important to you so they have all the information they need to help them with their decision.

Living with someone else

You might decide to live with someone else, like a grandparent, aunty or uncle. Many Australian kids choose to do this. This can be an opportunity for you to strengthen your relationship with this family member.

If you choose this option, you can still keep in touch with your parents, brothers and sisters. Have a look at the tips for keeping in touch in the Keeping in touch section.