Frequently asked questions
Q. What if one of my parents meets someone else?
A. This can be confusing and you may feel angry or worried. There are tips on how to deal with your feelings in the emotions section. It's okay to have a friendship with your mum or dad's new partner if you want to. You can take as long as you need to get to know the new partner. Forming new friendships does not mean you are being disloyal to your other parent. Whether you become close to your parent's new partner or not, your mum will still be your mum and your dad will still be your dad. Nothing can change that.
Q. Will I separate from my partner too?
A. Some teenagers whose parents have separated worry about their own romantic relationships. Just because your parents separated, does not mean you'll have problems in your relationships. Remember - the key to good relationships is good communication and respecting yourself and others.
Q. Who else can I talk to?
A. You can talk to a parent, teacher, coach, school counsellor or family friend. A relationship with an adult who you trust and feel safe with can be helpful.
Q. What if I don't feel comfortable talking to my friends?
A. There are some topics we don't feel comfortable talking to family or friends about. If there is something you want to talk about you can call Kids Help Line on 1800 551 800, or try the online counselling service at www.kidshelp.com.au. You can remain anonymous.
